Nobody has any idea what any of us are going through. I hear people say "I can sympathize with you, my grandpa had _______". But you can't sympathize.
Everybody deals with these life events differently. Yes, several people experience fits of optimism, denial, anger, but its not the same.
I don't know what I am experiencing. I may not know for days, months or years. Even though it seems comforting to say something like that, I'm telling you right here, it's not very comforting. Hell, before this experience that is something I would probably say to someone in my position, but no more.
Instead, send my dad and my family good vibes, prayers, cookies, cards, or chicken supreme (shout out to Jeanine Erickson).
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